::PIECES of AYYUHAL WALAD::

assalammualaikum warahmatullahi wa barakatuh~ **jwb10!**

hehe, in sense early in the morning. ** early kah??

wana share something, may it wil useful for those who read it. ;)

have a book, AYYUHAL WALAD (wahai anak yang tercinta), nasihat2 dari Imam Al Ghazali r.a.
been reading it quite many times, now wana share 1 of it wit u guys. ;)

his last advise was to leave 4things and to do 4things,here some of it~

LEAVE 1>> bahawa seboleh-bolehnya jangan engkau bertengkar dengan seseorang pada apa jua masalah kerana pertengkaran itu mengandungi bermacam-macam penyakit. dosanya lebih besar dari faedahnya. ia punca segala perangai jahat seperti RIAK, HASAD, TAKBUR, DENGKI, PERMUSUHAN dan MERASA BANGGA dengan KEMAMPUAN DIRINYA. jika kau pada hari terheret dalam pertengkaran dan niat hatmu untuk menzahirkan kebenaran, maka di sana ada 2 tanda:

i- bahawa engkau tidak membezakan sama ada kebenaran itu nanti tersingkap melalui lidahmu atau lidah orang lain daripadamu.
ii- bahawa perbahasan itu lebih di sukai seandanya di laksanakan di tempat tertutup daripada tempat yang di hadiri orang ramai.

ketahuilah bahawa menimbulkan suatu KEMUSYKILAN pada suatu masalah itu sama halnya dengan menunjukkan penyakit hati kepada seorang doktor. dan jawapan yang di berikan kepada kemusykilan itu sama pula halnya dengan usaha yang d buat untuk menyembuhkan penyakit hati itu..........
Dan ketahuilah bahawasanya orang yang JAHIL itu adalah orang yang sakit hatinya dan para ulama dan doktor yang pandai mngubatinya. kemudian ketahuilah pula bahawasanya penyakit jahil (bodoh) itu terbahagi kepada 4. hanya 1 boleh di ubati.
3 KEJAHILAN yang tidak terubati dan 1 KEJAHILAN yang mampu di ubati:

i- orang jahil yang bertanya dan menimbulkan masalah kerana di dorong oleh sifat hasad ataupun marah.
>> firman ALLAH; "maka berpalinglah engkau daripada mereka yang telah memalingkan mukanya dari mengingati kami, dan dia sebenarnya tidak menghendaki kecuali kesenangan hidup dalam dunia ini".<<

ii- bahawa kejahilan itu berasal dari kedunguannya (AL HAMAQAH), contoh pertanyaan orang yang dungu ni seperti orang yang baru menuntut ilmu. Ia baru sedikit saja belajar ilmu akal dan ilmu syarak, lalu ia bertanya dan mengi'tiradh terhadap seoran alim yang dalam ilmunya.
>> Nabi Isa a.s; "Aku tidak lemah daripada menghidupkan orang yang telah mati, tapi aku tidak akan berjaya mengubati orang yang dungu".<<

iii- bahawa orang yang bertanya itu memang mengkehendaki petunjuk dan hidayah. tetapi yang di tanyakannya ialah perkatan ulama ahli sufi yang besar besar. maka pertanyaan itu timbul daripada kedangkalan fahamannya. orang yang seperti ini masih jahil dan belum layak untuk memahami perkara2 yang dalam2, maka soalan2 yang seperti ini tidak perlu di jawab. >>Rasulullah SAW bersabda; "Kami para nabi disuruh mempercakapi sekalian manusia mengikt kadar akal mereka"<<

iv- kejahilan yang boleh di ubati ialah kejahilan pada seseorang yang benar2 mencari petunjuk dan ia mempunyai akal yang baik dan cepat memahami sesuatu masalah. ia bukan di pengaruhi oleh sifat2 jahat dan ia adalah benar2 mencari jalan yang lurus...


LEAVE 2>> Hendaklah engkau merasa takut bila menjadi seorang yang suka memberi nasihat atau memperingatkan orang lain kerana pekerjaan ini banyak mengandungi penyakit, kecuali engkau sudah dapat mengamalkan dengan apa yang engkau katakan maka tidak mengapa engkau menasihati orang lain. tetapi apabila keadaan memaksakan engkau menjadi penasihat maka hendaklah engkau menjauhkan dirimu daripada 2 perkara:

i- jangan engkau menggunakan bahasa yang payah2 dalam perkataanmu, seperti engkau suka menggunakan ibarat-ibarat dan isyarat-isyarat ahli sufi dan bahasa-bahasa mereka yang indah kerana Allah Taala itu benci kepada orang yang memaksa-maksa dirinya. orang2 yang suka memaksa-maksa dirinya itu selalunya melampaui batas. di man hal ini menunjukkan atas batin yang rosak dan hati yang lupa.

ii- janganlah hendaknya niatmu dalam memberi nasihat itu supaya makhluk banyak berhimpun di dalam majlismu atau supaya mereka menunjukkan perasaan yang sangat kagum dengan kebolehanmu.


too much to type, do find the book and read it for more. ;)

last but not least:

RASULULLAH SAW. ada bersabda: Ertinya, "sesungguhnya Allah tidak memandang kepada rupa tubuhmu dan bukan pula kepada amalanmu, tetapi ia memandang kepada hati dan niatmu".

renung2kan dan selamat beramal!! **wink2**

...in NASAM JB...

its my 2nd day in NASAM JB (National Stroke Association)~~
been doing really well, so far.. (far ke?haha)
most of the patient is on their acute and advanced stage of rehab.
they come everyday (weekdays) to get the training for 2 or even 3 hours.
a new experience i must say...

ow, yesterday we had the chance to met this 1 cute gal. Isabel. 3years old.
she will come every Monday, Wednesday and Friday.
yup, she's 1 of the patient here and been under rehab for almost 1 year.

how it happen?? when she's still in her mom's womb. poor little girl.
yet she's really bright, talkative, and above all, she is such a cutie. ;p
lets pray she'll get a normal life pretty soon ya??? Aminnnnn....


ok,,,just now went dinner with Mak, Abah, Puyee, Ayap and Ratna. we ate so many seafoods till i cant even roll side to side now. hehehe

and my kids (sheepo and martin), i left them at home. cant bring them here. **sad**
from puyee i'v learnt that my grandchildrens r only 5left. dont know whether its true or not.
i'l update soon.. mybe this weekend k?

adios!

...THE RISE AND FALL...

overheard this song on the radio the past 4days..

it brings back the old memories.

quite love this song..

here it is..

here the lyrics~~

"Rise And Fall"

(feat. Sting)

Sometimes in life you feel the fight is over,

And it seems as though the writings on the wall,

Superstar you finally made it,

But once your picture becomes tainted,

It's what they call,

The rise and fall [x2]

I always said that I was gonna make it,

Now it's plain for everyone to see,

But this game I'm in don't take no prisoners,

Just casualties,

I know that everything is gonna change,

Even the friends I knew before may go,

But this dream is the life I've been searching for,

Started believing that I was the greatest,

My life was never gonna be the same,

Cause with the money came a different status,

That's when things change,

Now I'm too concerned with all the things I own,

Blinded by all the pretty girls I see,

I'm beginning to lose my integrity

Sometimes in life you feel the fight is over,

And it seems as though the writings on the wall,

Superstar you finally made it,

But once your picture becomes tainted,

It's what they call,

The rise and fall

I never used to be a troublemaker,

Now I don't even wanna please the fans,

No autographs,

No interviews,

No pictures,

Endless demands,

Give into vices that was clearly wrong,

The type that seems to make me feel so right,

But some things you may find can take over your life,

Burnt all my bridges now I've run out of places,

And there's nowhere left for me to turn,

Been caught in comprimising situations,

I should have learnt,

From all those times I didn't walk away,

When I knew that it was best to go,

Is it too late to show you the shape of my heart,

Sometimes in life you feel the fight is over,

And it seems as though the writings on the wall,

Superstar you finally made it,

But once your picture becomes tainted,

It's what they call,

The rise and fall

Now I know,

I made mistakes,

Think I don't care,

But you don't realise what this means to me,

So let me have,

Just one more chance,

I'm not the man I used to be,

Used to beeeeeeeeeee

Sometimes in life you feel the fight is over,

And it seems as though the writings on the wall,

Superstar you finally made it,

But once your picture becomes tainted,

It's what they call,

The rise and fall [x4]

...my GRANDCHILDRENS...

yup.. i just got grandchildrens. 7 of them!!! i'm so happy!! and shocked too~~ ('-.-)

around 10am just now, when i'm about to make a cup of tea for myself, i went to my room to take a peek of Martin (new mommy), coz she's bein sick for the last 3days.

i trying to take her out from the cage and saw there is tiny little strange thing gaging.

n 'ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!'

took a closer look, its her babies!!!!

i'm so scared coz yesterday i came across this 1 article that mommy hamster will eat her babies if any1 touch them. huhu!!

well, obviously, I JUST DID!

i'm sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry!!!! (T.T)

i called my mom, and she ask me to separate the babies from the mommy.

i did it.

ow, 1 of the baby injured. maybe had been bitten, or, idk.

but after a while, i put the mommy with the babies.

and i put a handkerchief in the new place (which i make for them just now).

guess what, the mommy took all the babies and put them under her belly.

i was like... FIUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH~~~~

so i leave them ALONE, just like what i read in the article..

ouh.. for you guys to read.

LET SHARE IT & USE IT!

A hamster that has given birth should be disturbed as little or possible or she may become agitated and abandon, neglect, or even eat the babies. This means other than providing food and water, you should leave the hamsters and their cage alone as much as possible for the first couple of weeks. While it is tempting to look at the babies and make sure everything is okay, it is best to leave the mom to do her thing

Place strips of toilet paper or facial tissue in the cage so mom can build a soft nest. Ideally, you would do this once you realize your hamster is pregnant (it is usually pretty noticeable a couple of days before birth, just by the sheer size of her belly).

Don't try to handle the babies at all for at least two weeks.

Once the babies have arrived, don't worry about cleaning the cage for a while. Leave it alone for the first 10-14 days. You can spot clean really wet spots if absolutely necessary, but avoid disturbing the nest. If you have noticed your hamster is pregnant, do a thorough cleaning to prepare for the new arrivals.

Make sure to provide plenty of food and fresh water, but make feeding and watering as efficient and calm as possible.

While it is okay to have a quick peek in the cage on occasion, avoid siting and watching for long periods.

Keep in mind that the mom will be very protective as well so may act more aggressive than usual; this is natural and no cause for concern.

Though interference should be avoided if at all possible, if for some rare reason you must move a baby, use a spoon so you do not get your scent on the baby. It is rarely necessary to move a baby though even if they are out of the nest; the mom will usually retrieve any stray pups and return them to the nest.

The hamsters will be ready for weaning at about 3 weeks of age, and it is best to separate the male pups into one group and the females into another. Syrian hamsters can stay in these male and female groups for another 2-3 weeks, but then must be separated so there is only one per cage.

If you ended up with a male and female dwarf hamster by mistake, it is best to remove the male as soon as possible after birth, with as little disturbance to the female as possible. While the male will not harm the babies and may help with rearing them, the female can get pregnant again shortly after giving birth and this can be very hard on her body.

Make sure you are feeding a high quality diet with lots of protein. In addition to a good quality diet, you can offer small amounts of hard boiled egg, bits of cooked chicken, cheese, and wheatgerm to give the mom a nurtitional boost.

Unfortunately, if you got a pregnant hamster from the pet store she is probably quite young and may not have the best mothering abilities. She may be more likely to abandon or even cannibalize her babies. If she doesn't care for them and they are less than 10 days of age, it is extrememly difficult to save the babies. It is best to make sure you get your hamster from a store that separates males from females at a young age to avoid surprises like this.

source>> http://exoticpets.about.com/od/hamsters/f/hamsterbabies.htm

...sheepo and martin...

okay.. they r both my hamsters.. Lawi bought them for me right before i went to Kuala Kubu Bharu, May 1st, 2010.

they both are really cute. **will update this post with their pic in. ;)

erm.. at 1t when we bought them, we have no idea that they could be a girl and a boy.
we gave a name for each of them, SHEEPO AND MARTIN << Lawi pick this 1.
after 1 month, i fond out that sheepo is a boy, and martin is a girl.
so i change MARTIN to MARTINA. lol!

ok, they r both healthy, cute and active.. **especially at nyte** ("-.-)

ow.. they already know how to mate. ngeeee... but usually end up with martin biting sheepo. poor sheepo. ;(

ok... now to the story which is the latest story..
martin is sick.. sob3~~
there is 1 big lump, and 3 other small lumps on her belly. ;(
with pus in it. **yeah, its disgusting to see. and sad too laaaa!!! ;(
idk what is it, then thanx to this 1 page, i found out what is it. n will bring her to vet ASAP. here the article that i read just now.. THANK YOU!!

Abscesses occur when a bite, scratch or wound becomes infected and pus forms under the skin resulting in a lump. Often the bite or scratch may go unnoticed. Indeed by the time the lump is noticed the bite or scratch which originally became infected may have healed so it is often difficult to establish whether the lump is an abscess or a tumour.

If a bite or scratch can be seen on the lump then it is almost certainly an abscess. An abscess will require the pus to be drained and a course of antibiotics may be needed to treat the infection and so veterinary treatment must be sought. In extreme cases it may be necessary to visit the vet regularly as the pus may need to removed more than once whilst the infection clears.

Some abscesses may burst and this can increase the chances of infection making the hamster very ill. Therefore even if an abscess should burst before you have the opportunity to take the hamster to a vet it is still advisable to seek veterinary advice as antibiotics may still be required to help fight the infection even if drainage of the abscess is not required.

Sharp objects or pieces of food that the hamster stuffs in its cheek pouches may pierce the lining of the pouch and become stuck. This in turn can cause the pouch to become infected and an abscess to occur. This can initially be mistaken for the hamster carrying food or bedding in its cheek pouch as the cheek pouch area is swollen. However, if the hamster seems to continuously have its cheek pouches full it may be that the pouches are impacted or an abscess within the cheek pouch has occurred and veterinary advice should be sought.

Hamsters usually recover from abscesses well and fairly quickly when treated.

source>> http://www.petwebsite.com/hamsters/hamster_abscess.htm